that keeps everything indoors up to the mark

Holcroft shared in his opinion and sighed deeply as he sat down to supper. "Ah, Tom!" he said, "you're a lucky man.  You've got a wife that keeps everything indoors up to the mark, and gives you a chance to attend to your own proper business.  That's the way it was with mine.  I never knew what a lopsided, helpless creature a man was until I was left alone.  You and I were lucky in getting the women we did, but when my partner left me, she took all the luck with her.  That aint the worst.  She took what's more than luck and money and everything.  I seemed to lose with her my grit and interest in most things.  It'll seem foolishness to you, but I can't take comfort in anything much except working that old farm that I've worked and played on ever since I can remember anything.  You're not one of those fools, Tom, that have to learn from their own experience.  Take a bit from mine, and be good to your wife while you can.  I'd give all I'm worth--I  know that aint much--if I could say some things to my wife and do some things for her that I didn't do." Holcroft spoke in the simplicity of a full and remorseful heart, but he unconsciously propitiated Mrs. Watterly in no small degree.  Indeed, she felt that he had quite repaid her for his entertainment, and the usually taciturn woman seconded his remarks with much emphasis. "Well now, Angy," said Tom, "if you averaged up husbands in these parts I guess you'd find you were faring rather better than most women folks.  I let you take the bit in your teeth and go your own jog mostly.  Now, own up, don't I?" "That wasn't my meaning, exactly, Tom," resumed Holcroft. "You and I could well afford to let our wives take their own jog, for they always jogged steady and faithful and didn't need any urging and guiding.  But even a dumb critter likes a good word now and then and a little patting on the back.  It doesn't cost us anything and does them a sight of good.  But we kind of let the chances slip by and forget about it until like enough it's too late."